I lived my life in a way that I thought was normal. I was supposed to get married and have a child. That is what I always wanted. A perfect husband. A perfect child. Just like in the movies. In fact, though, my movie wasn’t perfect. My husband and I had a hard time adjusting to the role of being parents. We faced a Divorce. We faced the possibility of our son not being typical. We faced my ex-husband having Cancer and ultimately we faced his death.

I found myself at age 41 without my partner and raising a 10-year-old boy by myself who was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome. I was led to believe by some experts and people in our society that my son was going to face a life of dependency on me. That he would most likely not thrive and live a typical life. This was a scary thought. As the fear crept in it could have had the potential to hijack my life, I made a conscious choice to not accept these undesirable circumstances to become my final reality. I put together a team of support for him and myself. I got really curious about the concept of “letting go”. We hear that term all the time. You have to “let go” and then you will heal. I always wondered about that. Yes, let go….but how do you do that? There must be a process. There must be a handbook. Where are the tools?

On my road to discovery and curiosity about understanding myself and others I came across a wealth of tools that I learned to implement for my own healing. These tools were so powerful and logical and the results were magic. My son is now 18 years old and is getting ready to set sail off to college. The beliefs that others projected upon me about his circumstances were false. My fears and beliefs about how I related to my seemingly failed partnership with my ex-husband were false. I found liberation and courage and forgiveness by facing the fear of dealing with all the pain that life circumstances had presented to me.

These tools are such a gift that I wanted to share them with others. I participated in a year-long mastery program getting licensed and certified with PAX to teach these freedom tools to you. Along with my educational background in Psychology and my empathy and compassion for others, I am committed to providing, discovering and embodying the journey of transformation.